When a Loved one dies

Losing a loved one is never easy, and handling the deceased’s estate can compound stress during an already difficult time. Whether your loved one had a valid will or died intestate (without a will), there are specific steps you must take as their next of kin in order to begin the legal process of settling their estate. This legal process is known as probate, and it occurs regardless of whether the deceased (also known as the decedent) had a valid will or not.  

The estate must be handled in the Surrogate’s Court of the county where the deceased resided at the time of their death. This is the county that should be listed on the death certificate.

The word “Surrogate” means one who takes the place of another. Each county has a Surrogate’s Court, with the Surrogate acting as the Judge of that court. The Surrogate is elected for a term of five years pursuant to the Constitution of New Jersey.

The Surrogate’s Court is almost certain to touch the lives of every person in the county at some time.

First Legal Steps After The Death of a Loved One

If your loved one was a resident of Middlesex County at the time of their death, these are the first steps you must take after their death:

  1. Get the death certificate. You can obtain official copies of your loved one’s death certificate with a raised seal from the funeral director or the Office of Vital Statistics and Registry. For additional information about death certificates, please visit the New Jersey Funeral Director Association website.
  2. Look for an original will. Settling your loved one’s estate should proceed more smoothly if they had a valid will in place at the time of their death. Search their home thoroughly, check any safe deposit boxes they may have had, or ask their attorney. If a will is located, give the original to the person named as executor of the estate.
  3. Make a list of decedent’s next of kin. You will be required to provide the names and full addresses of the decedent’s closest next of kin, regardless of inheritance, estrangement, etc.
  4. Gather information about assets. If your loved one died without a will, you will be required to provide a list of assets and their value.

Although a will may be brought to the Surrogate’s Court any time after death, please note that probate and the issuance of letters occur only after the 10th day after death.

WHAT IS PROBATE?
WHEN THERE IS A WILL: THE PROBATE PROCESS
WHEN THERE IS NO WILL: THE ADMINISTRATION PROCESS
WHEN THERE IS NO WILL: ESTATES VALUED AT LESS THAN $50K

Fees

THE SURROGATE COURT FEES
FEES FOR ADMINISTRATION, SMALL ESTATES, AND SHORT CERTIFICATES